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Sub Category : Motivation

Let's be real here. Everyone wants the perfect relationship and some even pretend they have it and some even believe they do in their own little world. ("Oh baby I love you and I will always be there for you and help you through the highest of highs and lowest lows and we will never have a disagreement and always communicate flawlessly together, and never have a bad day with each other and be together forever in peace harmony and happiness ALWAYS!💞") And we all want the perfect life no bills plenty of $ and security in life in general.
 Yeah.... Sounds great.. who in the world thinks this is even possible..?? We are all human with emotions. Some of us are in counseling and most of us probably should be. But this concept of the perfect relationship or perfect flawless life, is what we are told should be expected. How did this concept come about? Nobody that I ever knew nor anyone they knew has ever said that it's all peaches and cream like the fairytale we've been atrivied to. What are you supposed to expect on those days you worry about, or disagree on, what bill gets payed 1st? And the nights you go to bed without making up, or with wondering thoughts? Nobody told us what to do about those times. And those are sometimes consider the easy times. I don't even want to get started on the really hard times.. emotional distress, self loathe, family distress, deaths, finances, natural disasters (hurricanes, landslides, tornadoes, fires...) It's so much easier to expect the smooth ride then to prepare for the rough road we all have ahead of us. When you don't have each other who do you have? And how do you carry the load, when there's nobody to carry it for?