Just My Theory On Love Read Count : 7

Category : Adult

Sub Category : Erotic
Love is a choice not a Feeling. You love me you say. Why? If you can't come up with at least five or so Reasons from that question easily, you do not love me. You love the idea of me. Maybe you like how I look or how I make you feel. The attention I'm giving you. But that's not about me at all is it? That's about you. You don't know me, not really. People are largely mistaken on what true love really is. They think it's a Feeling. It's not. They think it's butterflies and obsessively thinking about that person all day long. Wrong. That's a fact you weigh station. It's fun but it's not love. Love is pain, and sacrifice, but it's also the most beautiful thing in the world when it's real reciprocated. Imagine someone knowing all about you. Everything. Even the small things, the things you are embarrassed about and don't want anyone to know, imagine messing up, and even letting that person down, they forgive you. They are wise enough to read between the lines of the situation, and they don't judge you for it. They love you, they even notice the small things, like that skull on your rib cage that you hate so much but they think it's cute. It's part of you, the way your eyes Dart around the room when you're nervous. Cute. The way you tear up when your At a funeral they love your heart. Your compassion. That you know you. That's love. It's being fully known and accepted the "essence of Love begins when  fatuation ends you don't have to be perfect for the person that loves you. They wouldn't even like you perfect. Your flaws make you unique. And give them the space and permission to be just as human. I've had a lot of women D affect you waited with me. A few who actually believe understood me and got me enough to fully appreciate me. Love me, it's an amazing feeling and left such an impression on me that I now recognize counterfeit love much quicker. That was the end for me. That is not low she was effectuated. Who wants someone who only loves them because how they look? Gee thanks. What about the way laugh or the way play with you when I'm nervous my stupid jokes, my ability to make you smile how about the way your eyes light up the minute you see me. you can't love me if you don't know me........ My theory between.true love true love evolves it doesn't appear spontaneously, but and develops, mostly through two people working things out together FYI staying around is not the same thing as working it out only when you're been through trials and tribulations and to Hell and Back Again several times with that person and made it out hand and hand do you respect And admire each other that is love....... exploration Now there is such a thing as inflammation, but it's temporary as soon as things get a little difficult or the other person start showing who they really are the relationship takes a turn for the worst. song know there's more there. But they don't care to look. They don't care to take the time. I am not meaning to sound so high-and-mighty, but it's a real problem. I'm sure I'm not the only one. I am sure there are many men and women who only care about status come how their partner looks and what they can do for them. Self-serving love is not love. It's selfishness. It's a trap pod of passion, intimacy, and commitment. you have to have all three for it to be lasting love. Information is so strong that people often mistake it for love. I know that, this is just something that personally triggers me, I can't deal with selfish women, I just can't, I want a loving giving, sweet, and Confident Woman, hopefully they still exist, I know no one is perfect, but some people are more selfish than others, I would hope to find someone who tips the scale in the right direction, this goes two ways I know, we are all selfish on a certain level. But a good person will try and give of their time, their money, their effort, and energy to the people they care about. They will do their best. When someone loves you, they love all of you. They see where you are weak, and they understand. They don't judge it, they may not like it, But they are patient with you, they trust you. They trust in the better side of you and believe in who you are. When they are upset with you, they talk to you about it in a calm way. Not shaming, they care more about the relationship than they do about being right, when you love someone it's not so difficult to accept their flaws, it just comes naturally. you make a choice, you don't always feel Love, sometimes you have to to that person who has let you down in a big way perhaps, in that moment, do you think you're going to feel so loving? You're not, but it's a choice. You choose to be kind. You choose to be sweet to them, you may kiss them on the forehead and tell them good morning, have breakfast with me. You put yourself aside. You give despite your hurt feelings, it touches them, and then they will most likely feel like s*** for being a brat to you and apologize and you both can go about your day loving each other. She? Selfishness is a peculiar to love. you bring them coffee they're saying. You surprise them with little gifts that are unique to them or the two of you. The best relationships have a perfectly split 50/50 of give-and-take. They call it co-dependent when one person is doing all the giving. There are so many relationships like that. No one will ever be 50/50 all of the time, but that's the aim. So that person you are dating or in a relationship with. Ask yourself do they really know you? Would they have to Scratch their heads if someone asked them why they loved you. Life is too short to give your heart to someone who doesn't fully appreciate you. There's also no timeline for love. My time has finally come in my life to settle into love once again. It's a different path for everyone, maybe it's not their fault. Maybe they're just ignorant and can't appreciate a good thing when it smacks them in the face it's sad but there are people like that out there. maybe they don't want to see it, maybe they aren't ready to see it. They could be afraid to become confronted with your and Harry value and the responsibility of caring for your heart, some people also self-sabotage things out of fear. Think of it this way, can you be mad at a p for trampoline on the pearls you toast before him? He doesn't value them? Why is he stomping on them and getting them all money you ask? He's a pig. He doesn't know any better, so you can't take it personally can you? Peach can't comprehend a pearls value to some people just don't get it, they're not yet quite self-actualized. They don't understand why they do the things they do. They're yet to see what's valuable or important in a partner they are living for the moment for a Feeling. When you do the work of loving someone, the sacrifice of giving of yourself, the good feelings naturally flow. If you read the work, you will sow the reward. Love is sacrifice. It is sometimes that feeling right away, but not always. Feelings come and go. Real Love Stage. It's a verb. An action. A choice. A sacrifice of yourself. It's an investment. If you show someone love, that doesn't mean they are going to love you back or that they should either. white for someone who gets you first, And then decide whether or not you feel the same. Unrequited love is painful, wait to love someone who loves you back, someone who can appreciate you and understand all of you. There are all kinds of people in the world. We're all very different. Don't assume someone thinks the way you do. When you know what you're looking for, it's easier to find it. It's also easier to dismiss people who don't embody the traits you appreciate, when you don't know what you No, you are embarking down a road of confusion and sidetracked. Love like bread has to be made over. It has to be made new. this suggests that love is a song from work. It's not just a feeling. You do  the work the energy, sacrifice, time, first and then you reap the benefits of the feeling. And what's more it laugh. anything else is infatuation and will ultimately fade, and unusually within a few months. Love at first sight is nothing more than information. You like how they look. You're attractive. There's nothing wrong with that, but looks fade. newsflash we're all going to die one day. Why not wait for someone with a heart of gold who will bless your life? Can you laugh with her? Play with her? Can you be vulnerable and cry on her shoulder when you feel like the world he is against you? Those things very seeds deep in your heart. Love grows. They last longer. And I dare say, you even need them. Love Is Friendship set on fire.......TaylorMade

Comments

  • Great job, I truely love it!!

    Mar 27, 2020

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