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Is time the biggest healer,
Or the strongest pain concealer,
Does time.kick.in amnesia,
Or gives our heart a dose of anesthesia,
Do memories of ache and agony just fade away,
Do the smile's hide what the soul may betray....
Is time really the best healer?
Does time really heal the wounds of the heart and sorrows of the soul?

I dont think so.Time may cover the lesion with the scar tissue but the pain is never lessened.The scab formed in the heart maybe buried beneath the layers of different priorities and other responsibilities but whenever we sit back, memories scrape the safety net and the lacerations surface up,still very raw, still very painful.
Today is the day when my mother was admitted in the hospital for her by pass surgery 15 years back that was scheduled to take place the next day. 
She passed away during f the operation
Apparently  the doctor who was supposed to test her blood for allergies negligently ignored it and after the successful surgery when the injection was administered to thicken the blood again her body reacted adversely and her heart failed.A life was lost and a family was shattered.My dather never really got over the loss and passed away after 2 years.
Life did get busy bringing up my 3 kids, but the pain had not reduced.Whenever I sit idly, the memories keep rushing back and the pain.oozes out staining my life with tears and sorrow.

Time only makes you busy and increases your responsibilities leaving you less time to think and remember your old wounds and unbearable grief.

Time may subside the pain but is definitely not the painkiller.
Time maybe the best teacher but isn't the best healer...