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Have you ever found yourself turning to your special someone and saying, “If you loved me you would of never.”? How about ending an argument with, “Don’t worry about me.” and sighing deeply? If so, you may be using guilt as a weapon.If you use guilt against your partner, it destroys intimacy by making your love conditional. If you manipulate your partner with guilt you are telling them that unless things are done the way you demand you will stop loving them. You set yourself up in a position of power that can only be sustained by keeping the other person down. Guilt attacks both your partner and your relationship.Using guilt as a weapon may get you what you want in the short term, but it is a dangerous tactic that will undermine your relationship and rob you of intimacy with your partner.