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Sub Category : Motivation

Every person either rich or poor experience s one situation which is similar in either of their life t hat is comparison so person leads their entire life by comparing with others and becoming disappointed even if they got good outcome .
Firstly it doesn't matter only ones taught to being compared the society and people,parents are been encouraging us to do it since from our childhood .is it really necessary in every one's life?
My answer is of is not necessary to compare with others every people in the earth is different in their own way neither of them are same even if they look alike  .
It was strange that a child who is unwilling to be compared with others the same child when he is grown up he starts comparing his child with others is it fair no,That is society power it makes any person to do anything.
I would like to share two incidents
Once there Is a well educated family both the mother and father were well educated and her son was very bad in his academics but his parents never forced him to study and to get high grades they left their son to grow him in his own way they never restricted their son to do anything either they both encouraged him to follow his happiness that child grown up and got educated in a college and got a job description despite of his bad academics the reason is his parents never restricted him to do anything he grown in a  peacefull and happy way without fear of anything and became a good job holder .
And other child who is good in his academics despite of his outstanding performance in his academics his father always use to compare with the other students and he is dissatisfied about his performance in his academics but he use to come every time top10 in his class after a few days his father comparison grown big and that child completely lost his hope on his studies and fell in a depression and finally committed suicide .now there is a no one present in their family for father to compare
Every child is different they will shine in their time like sun and moon they both are present in the sky  but they will shine when their time comes........