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This is my first enrty....

I often wonder what the secret to a lasting relationship is... is it having things in common? Is it really communication or is it doing things together? I can't be sure but one of the more important things is just loving each other together and equally. You really cant expect the relationship to work without puting the effort in. One person to do all the organising, make all the decisions and put in the cute gestures and affection. Its really not hard to say "i love you" often with a random peck on the lips or a sneaky bum grab. Its really not hard to post a photo caption or not. Its really not hard to just be there and listen, talk, explain. In the end one person does too much and the other person doesnt do enough and then "bam" its over, but who really is the one to blame? We spend so much time thinking about the other person and doing what we think will make them happy and then blame them when it turns out wrong. We spend so much time going back and forth "i dont know, what do you want to do?", "what do you want for dinner?". If one person cant make a decision just make the decision and if they dont like it move on... its compromise. Its making a decision together. Why is it so hard in an argument to just admit youre wrong? Why is it so hard to just cop the blame and let it be over? Its not always easy to get over an argument and move on but its a hell of a lot harder to keep it going.... you say you want someone when they are ready to let go but yet you wont fight to keep them when theyre right in front of you. The future is so blurry, its never set in stone. No you cant take money or material things to the grave but you certainly need them to stay alive. Live a little, spend a little, save a little. You never know what tomorrow will bring so love hard now! Before your chance to keep that love is gone!