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Dating as a single mom. It's the most hardest thing to do. Men don't only want a relationship with you. Your kids they out up with them. Entertain them for a few minutes but want nothing to do with them. They ain't ther kids so why should they care. But the reality is this. There truely are great mom's out there who are single. Who's kids need a man to step up and be a father to them or at least care about them as much as they care about the mother. But unfortunately my generation doesn't. A man who says he wants a family but does not have a clue what family really means.let me tell y'all something. I work 45-50 hours a week to provide for my kids. For what? I barely get anytime with them. And I barely have time for a relationship. And at the end if the month I take extra hours and more time away from kids to make sure I have enough to cover the living cost of the three of us. The last thing I want to do is get my feelings attached and my kids hearts broke to someone who isn't really interested in a family. I wish I had the support of a man not just for his money but the family support. If I work over help me with the kids homework making sure there baths are done they ate. They had a support system for there bad day at school. Women don't want a man for money or someone to play daddy we want a support system for the family we have. When we with there father's they lead us to believe we would have that family and support system but in the end they thought the other pussy on the other side if the fench was better or they didn't want the expensives of a child. So who's left with the care of the child us the mother and men want to know why were so independent and all for feminist and why we hustle better than a man. Because your brothers made us this way. Those tough baby momma's who are labeled as bitches or crazy it's because we had to learn not to take shit from no man. You know what I want. A man to say baby I see how hard your working to take care of everything and your kids. Here tell me what you need from me. Cook dinner and give me a massage and buy my a gift card to the grocery store. Do something nice for me to relieve some if the stress and worries I have. Let me tell you something if a man did something that simple for me, I'd do anything and everything for him just like I do for my kids.