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  • Having amazing Sex starts with YOU
    Have you ever found yourself having lacklustre sex?  
    Has your sex been boring, typical and nothing special?  Ever had awkward sex?  I have and it’s the stuff of nightmares.
    Before I go on…remember…not everyone is sexually compatible.  It’s apples and oranges.  If I’m a guy who doesn’t like BDSM and she LOVES, it…that’s called being sexually incompatible.
    Subjecting yourself to TERRIBLE sex should be a fucking sin.  Sex is more than penis in vagina, emotionally speaking.  I mean, the physical act is easy.  It’s hard to fuck up putting your dick in a girl’s vagina and pumping in and out a few times until you reach orgasm.  This is almost animalistic and, in my experience, is not really that pleasurable.  This is the kind of sex you might have during a one-night stand.  There is no chemistry, in my experience.  You may have had different experiences, but this is all just my perspective.  The best sex you can have is with someone you trust, love and have respect for.  But, lets go way back.  Having great sex, starts with you.  To have great sex you must know one thing.  Not even know, but you must FEEL one thing:
    You must have empathy.  You must feel her soul in relation to yours.  Empathy & Compassion…spiritually that’s all you need.
    If you are very in touch with your emotions and very in touch with what feels ‘just right’, you will always have good sex.  I’ve never fucked a guy and I don’t know how guys go at sex but maybe some do foreplay, and some don’t.  Some just want to get right to P in V.  Fuck that.  No way.  I don’t go for that.  There is a little trick here:
    Treat her body how you want to be treated.  This one is Definity personal for everyone.  Personally, I WANT affection, romance, softness & love.  Therefore, I treat her body as such.  I’m acting in accordance with what makes ME feel good.  Too often we’re tense as fuck or too nervous to relax.  If I treat her body how I want to be treated, I will always be relaxed.  I am NOT the type of guy to choke a girl or smack her around (Some girls & guys like this).  I am NOT one of them.  Sex to me is mostly about love, affection, compassion, empathy and feeling.  I DON’T want to be smacked around so I don’t do it.  IF I did do it, I would be acting false.  I would be nervous and uncomfortable which MAKES her uncomfortable and you will ALWAYS have shit sex.  Always act in accordance with how you want to feel and give that to her.
    You must know yourself here.  It’s no good guessing.  You must know how you want to feel.  You must feel how you want her to feel.  This is not a thinking game.  This is not an analysing game…. it’s about empathy & feeling.
    In the moment if you are relaxed, carefree, not thinking and just FEELING…this will transfer to the other person and their relaxation will increase.












Comments

  • nice

    Sep 19, 2018

  • This is Private Can't tell

    This Is Private Can't Tell

    totally spot on👌

    Feb 02, 2019

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