Category : Diary/Journal

Sub Category : N/A

So a lot has happened since I wrote on here last but I'll clue you in on as much of it as I can: 
So while I was working at my last job, me and my husband finally separated! Yes I said it.. Separated. 
I had come home hearing that he had been leaving our kids inside when he was supposed to be watching them,out drinking and trying to cheat on me with other girls-needless to say we got in a yelling match when he brought one of the girls in to try to say nothing was happening..then I kicked him out,He left without arguing and while I was getting ready for work he was out there letting his friends harrass me. Skip to a few days after that.. He had waited until I was off work, I literally came home and some things were missing!! A few seconds after he came rushing into the apartment,I later found out that he had taken the keys to my car and he took off with it. I had to quit my job because I had no transportation and no one to watch the kids for me. 
A few weeks after that happened,I had my friend message me freaking out because he had gone to where her nieces lived and they had been out with him all night..keep in mind that they are 19 and 16 and he's 21. He was lying to me about them Being with him but he finally went to go drop one of them off..the 19 year old stayed with him trying to get him to take her to a different town! There was nothing I could do until the cops could get him for driving during revocation(he's not suppose to be driving). Well that same day me and my friend continuously called him in and they finally caught him! Now he's in jail and the 19 year old won't listen to anyone when we tell her to stay away from him. But fast forward, I have a seasonal job now,the kids are in daycare and I have one of the vehicles back.. Plus I revoked two of his bonds because he got arrested..so more money went into my pocket. I am a very content girl right now.. Although I'm peeved because he keeps trying to get back with me but he's video chatting the girls( the teens if you will) today I had just learned that he wrote them both a letter saying that his mom would let them know when he got out and that he loves them. I am just beyond disgusted. 
I just want to get this divorce process going already but my family want me to wait on that until i get more things in place for myself. 
Plus I just have to be honest about this but yes I am seeing the ex that I was writing about being in love with. We're taking things slow and he knows about my daughter possibly being his,he said that's one of the reasons why he wanted to get back in contact..well that and he missed me. So yes things are slowly looking up.