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Is loving someone is a wrong thing in life. I just want to say that loving a person in our life is a crime or what. Love doesn't matter any caste, religion, education, etc. But I say 1-6 years difference does not matter because basically are living in same generation so you have the same thoughts and feelings. If you love someone age shouldn't matter. It the matter of mind, if it's not bother then why a care.? You only live once and finding a partner to love you. Just the way you are, is hard in society. 
        Loving a person in life really matter any age.?, or caste religion. I know it hard for other people to understand us.  But I don't think that love someone who is elder then us. Its not wrong to love that person who is elder the  US love doesn't care if someone is older or younger, but we certainly do. Society holds negative stigma regarding age differences, which cause people to obsess over it. And that is why when we start developing feelings for people outside of your age brackets, we think our feelings are wrong.? If you both are on the same level of maturity, don't let the attached age number cloud your decision. Maybe you met an older lover when you were  still immature, each person we meet has a purpose in our life. Maybe this person isn't meant for you during your years of evolution, but you will come back each other when you each hold the same mindset. Or maybe this person was in your life at the wrong time to teach you something. Whatever the case, it may have happened for a reason. 
       Maybe he's 30 and your are 20, but he is just confused about his life as you are about yours. It might be scary having 10 years difference age, but both are experiencing similar things I'm life. I don't see why that number blossoming between two lovebirds.. 
          Of course, he has seen more days on this earth but that doesn't mean he understand where he stands In life more than you do. If you both want the same thing from the relationship, then you have settled half the battle. Just  like couples who are the same age, if you aren't on the same page, things will be just as difficult. Not only society judge dating outside. Our ages, but it's also expects that we all age and develope at same route. Furthermore, it is expected that with age comes maturity which isn't true. 
       Maturity is something that develops after experiences we face in life, you don't just magically become mature on your 25th birthday. You can mature at a very young age, or maybe, you never truly mature.  
        But society makes us feel that if we haven't figured out ourselves by our mind 20swe have lived and are continuing to live incorrectly. The majority of us have future plans and hope to be certain point by a certain age, but that isn't always the reality of that situation.  
         People always say act your age.  We are expected to leave our childish behaviours at our high school graduations and become mature. Adults..  That is not the case for everyone, through because we are all on own natural paths. 
         Experiences happens to people at different time in life,causing some to grow up faster or slower than the normal.  Though I am not expert in relationships by any mean, ultimately leave all judgement behind when you find someone truly special. No two people's are the same, just like no two romances are the same, take each person as he or she comes. Don't close yourself off based age, but take into consideration where people of different ages are in their lives..  
 Just because, of someone is certain age doesn't mean he or she fits a certain status quo.  Allow love to work it's mysterious magic if you find yourself having special connection. With someone who is elder or younger than you.  
          Explore it and let it grow beautifully..