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Dear, maa  and Papa, 
Thank you.!  How simple is it to type this one peace of paper. Yet it is so difficult to tell you, the same two words in person why.?? The question is not why.  The question is for what.
           What do I start  thanking for you..  For the time I was sick and was crying all the night, maa you gave up up your sleep and sat all night nursing me. Soaking the towel in ice water and placing it on my head,  waiting for the fever to lie down.. 
   The time Papa, you came back late from work after a long tiring day, yet you went off to get my school supplies without crabbing,  Papa everyone I asked u a certain amount of money you give me more than what I asked for with that perfect smile of yours.. 😊😊 you both are an epitome of compassion, hard work and determination. I have learnt these 3 qualities  by watching you during your trying times..  
  MAA, you where lying on the bed sick, yet the first thing you asked me when I returned from school was did you finish your lunch? When I said no, you frowned at me and got up from the bed, me and got up from the bed , heading towards the kitchen. 
   Papa you tend to always project your tough emotionless exterior, but the minute you know I need to be dropped somewhere, you come back early from work. From party planning to vacation planning you never fail to impress me in your management skills.. 
I truly blessed to be a perfect daughter of a perfect set of Indian parents. But yes now that I have reached an age where I would like to request you few things from the bottom of my heart.. 
 I humbly ask you to open up to me, talk unhesitatingly about taboo topics, boyfriends, love marriage, drinking and many others. Which we never discuss openly. Yes,  I know it must be supremely uncomfortable for you and it will be the same for me..  But isn't it better that these subjects are addressed in a cohesive  environment from the right source.? 
  Maa and Papa, I have come of age where I demand reasons for your actions.. 
   As a child you told me what is good or bad.  What is black or white.  But the time has come, when I ask you why,.? Why do you say it is good. Why do you say it is bad? Why I must I do this? And why mustn't it.?
Guide me through my journey but please do not cave a path for me. 
I would like the freedom to make my own decisions and the opportunity to make my own path no matter how hard it may be, our neighbours, chacha chachi,  mama mani keep you telling you the things that I need to come up in my life.   I humbly appeal to you to first ask me what I want to do in my life.  I am 100% unquie and the last edition of my kind so please do not compare my result to those of my peers. 
  I have always worked hard to gain knowledge rather than rote learn for sake of my marks.  I may not be good at by hearting theories and definitions.  I may not be good at science and mathematics but there is a hidden artist and writer's in me who is waiting unless creativity.  
  I will put my best of my efforts in the field.  I am truly passionate about and you will raise your head with pride and tell me, that you are proud of me,with those beautiful eye glislening with moisture.. 
I know that there is nothing that I can do repay all that you have done for me, right from birth. BUT I WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE IS NOT ONLY YOUR LIFE BUT IN THE LIVES OF MANY..    
     FROM LOVING DAUGHTER...