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For years now I have been struggling to find out more about why I am the way that I am..why I tend to run from my relationships,why I tend to get mad quick whenever something happens that I don't like or when the wrong things get said. 

I have been trying to deny it and push the thought away because I don't want to believe that it's true(kind of like I really don't want to face the truth) but what if my parents had played a bigger role in how I am than they thought possible? What if because of how they handled their marriage poorly at times that circled into how I handle my own? 

What if I learned my coping skills from them and they don't even know?

Can your parents really be a huge factor in how you live your life When it comes to being in relationships? 

Comments

  • Even if they are, what are you going to do about it? Blame your parents and move on? If you truly dislike how to handle your relationships, just imagine what kind of relationship you want, and how would someone else would act with you to get to that type of relationship with you. Then act like that someone. Good luck

    Jun 13, 2018

  • Though it is true that we are shaped by our own experiences and that upbringing plays a big part in how we make decisions in life, but those are merely the basics. We learn as we grow and through growth and maturity, we learn to make better choices in life. If things don't go well in our life, it is up to us to look deep and acknowledge what it is we are not doing right and work on those areas. At the end of the day, the choice is ours to make. And every choice has its own consequence.

    Jun 13, 2018

  • Zee Zulu is right.

    Jun 13, 2018

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