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* Kinda long post ahead *

Incels: A group (usually young men) who feel they are being left behind by women. They are socially isolated, lacking love, lacking human touch and lacking sex.

First of all, I get it. I really do. Being with a woman you like, even holding hands with her, feels good. This releases lots of sexy chemicals into the brain. Having sex with a woman you're really into is even more amazing. I get lonely. I have times of low confidence. I have times where I feel ugly, unwanted and unattractive. I havent had sex, been on a date or been in a relationship in 400+ days. Heres the crux of the issue - THIS IS NOT WOMEN'S FAULT OR PROBLEM. This is MY problem.

What these incel fuckheads lack is ability to INTERNALIZE their problems. They never reflect on their own behaviour. They never reflect on how they come across to other people. They feel so ENTITLED to sex, they don't compromise any of their behaviour. 

Look, if I'm being rejected time after time after time I don't blame women...i blame ME. I ask myself 'Do i feel confident', 'Do I have a mission in life', 'How might i be coming across to this girl'. I don't bury my head in the sand and blame the woman. She has a right not to be into you.