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     💋NOTHING IN LIFE💋
        💋IS BY CHANCE💋 
        
 And when I say this it means 
"NO 2 PEOPLE ARE THE SAME" and it has been this way since the beginning of time. We have to start with SELF and realize that in order for anything to work especially in a relationship/marriage BOTH persons have to OWN UP TO their FAULTS and be WILLING to COMPROMISE and CHANGE certain things that may cause your relationship/marriage to FAIL. Nothing on EARTH is PERFECT because if so I wouldn't be here going through TRAILS AND TRIBULATIONS , or LIFE DAILY ISSUES. What makes for anything to work for my good, I first have to be willing to OWN UP TO MY OWN FAULTS ACCEPT!!! what I do and say...I have to "FORGIVE AND LET GO"  put what I can't work out in GOD'S HANDS START FROM SCRATCH WITHOUT BLAME"holding on to yesterday and BLAMING others for my MISHAPS... that alone will only set me further back into the mindset of where I was at first place. It takes MATURITY to be able to "EXCEPT EQUAL CRITICISM"and stop taking everything someone say as and ATTACK PUT DOWN OR INSULT .You will get NO where being the victim .Be VICTORIOUS of that simple situation or problem with a OPEN MIND and see how good the results will be in the end. STOP letting simple and small issue snowball into something big. 
COMPROMISING 
SACRIFICE OPEN DIALOG
TRUST AND UNDERSTANDING is the KEY.. so use it!!!
DARKNESS engraved in my back like a tattoo
Always there making sure I NEVER FORGET YOU... You left holes in my SOUL that are DARK INFUSED with my SINS and all of my truth and all of my lies
Inside of me.. my soul's eyes CRY with the PAIN of the CHAINS that bound me...CHAINS with BLACK LOCKS that have no KEY
I try to BREAK them shredding my skin The more I try the more they sink in The holes in my soul release the ashes of my PAST that's how I know that these CHAINS WANT LAST...*SET ME FREE 2 BE ME AGAIN*Filling my holes to NOT let you in.. The holes in my soul will BREAK these RESTRAINTS
There's nothing or no one telling me I CAN'T...So DARKNESS even though you've left your mark im TEARING THESE CHAINS APART,, Throw them down into the PITS OF HELL
GOODBYE DARKNESS I wish you well..
EVERYTHING in LIFE is always about how we FEEL. We want things to go or either want things to be a certain way, because we believe in the having of that, NOT HAVING THAT, 
NOT HAVING TO DEAL WITH THAT ETC; will make us feel better.
But if we are reliant on things being different to make us FEEL BETTER, we are held to ransom by things we "CAN NOT CONTROL"If however, we take responsibility for how WE FEEL then we HAVE CONTROL OVER OUR OWN EMOTIONS That should be our primary goal because it’s the only thing we can control.But it may not seem that way because it’s been the other way around for so long.I'm starting right now, by firstly, deciding that I'M TAKING BACK MY POWER I'm beginning today by reaching for the next best feeling thought and by DECLARING IT..
Today, is my DOMINANT INTENT to look for those things that make me FEEL GOOD!I'm so THANKFUL for having know SOMEONE A GENTLE FRIEND, a REAL ONE
Revealing the LORD'S design..That LOVE is GREAT and is ALL DIVINE WORKS are NOT enough to THANK you my FRIEND...
despite our differences you ALWAYS gave me your SHOULDER to LEAN AND DEPEND ON..We SHARED WAYS, your HEART YOU LEND TO ME EACH AND EVERY DAY..MY WORRIES ARE HEALED, MY PAIN IS MENDED THANK you my FRIEND, this I should say It's the language of my HEART from on this day
And as you HELP me by showing me the way..
You CHEER ME UP and keep my blues away
WITH YOU TO MYSELF I CAN BE TRUE Nothing to hide yet nothing to show
MY BOOK OF LIFE is opened up for you My stories are told but only to you THANK you my FRIEND.THANK you my FRIEND.I do not LOVE you except because I LOVE you; I go from LOVING to not LOVING you, From WAITING to not WAITING for you.My HEART moves from COLD TO FIRE.I LOVE you only because it's YOU the ONE I LOVE;  KCA I HATE YOU DEEPLY and HATING you Bend to you, and the measure of my CHANGING LOVE FOR YOU Is that I DO NOT SEE you but LOVE you blindly I ALWAYS knew that LOVE would come FIND me someday but never did I know that it would be you who was headed my way you caught me off guard and took me by surprise
but you SIMPLY. CAPTIVATED ME, the same way you do when I look into your eyes It's TRUE that EVERY GOOD and PERFECT GIFT is from ABOVE I was presented to u as a BEAUTIFULLY PACKAGED GIFT FULL OF HUMOR, TALENT INTELLIGENCES, BEAUTY AND LOVE.
It isn't finding thePERFECT PERSON but learning to see an IMPERFECT PERSON PERFECTLY"
we all have our FLAWS but when I view you THROUGH MY EYES, PERFECTION IS ALL I SEE From when you laugh to when you're upset, I STILL LOVE the LITTLE things you do especially hearing you laugh.. coming into this relationship has been HARD at times but we've MADE IT THROUGH
I know as long as we're on this JOURNEY TOGETHER there's NOTHING that WE CAN'T DO Sometimes I wonder if what we have is too GOOD TO BE TRUE
too SCARED to get my HEART BROKEN and SCARED of the THOUGHT OF LOSING YOU but in the end, I TRUST in the AUTHOR and PERFECTER of what I BELIEVE
because what we ASK FOR IN Him WE IN RETURN SHALL RECEIVE
Where your TREASURE is, your HEART will be also" is how the saying goes I may not know what tomorrow may bring, for God is the only one who knows the one thing I do know is that you MY ONE AND ONLY a TREASURE in my HEART that I want to DEVOTE my WHOLE LIFE to COMPLETELY I know I don't need to PROVE MY FEELINGS to you.... U know they're TRUE.. because what I've known in my past, doesn't come close to the EXPERIENCE I've shared with you I've had the EXPERIENCE of being in relationships before however, this is the FIRST TIME I've been TRULY HAPPY... I couldn't ask for anything more it's an HONOR to know that I AM YOURS, as YOU ARE MINE and I TRUST GOD that He'll bring us TOGETHER IN HIS BEAUTIFUL TIME For now, I'll be WAITING PATIENTLY for that day WHEN WE'LL BE TOGETHER that precious moment in time when I'll say, "IT'S YOU THAT I WANT TO BE WITH FOREVER" GOD made everything BEAUTIFUL PRECIOUS and NEW
just as BEAUTIFUL and PRECIOUS as the day will be, WHEN WE LOOK INTO EACH OTHERS EYES AND SAY, "I LOVE YOU" Until I met you my HEART STOOD STILL...Like moon and the sun Their LOVE is TRUE That's how I feel when I look at you PASSION BURNING like a wildfire You are my WEAKNESS my HEARTS DESIRE Take my walls down And leave me bare With you I have no care Breathe me in slowly Take me in Press your lips against mine An innocent sin I'm done dreaming a better man Waiting for him to take me by the hand Because what I found is so much more Dreams became reality when you walked through that doorTo truly LOVE again will always be about forgiveness and to forgive our past pain that exist in our present day fears mean we have more unforgiveness to release of the person who caused our pain from yesterday. Forgiving them will open the door for us to LOVE in a Godly manner not in a Man Made LOVE kind of way, so that i can LOVE greater than you ever feared or hurt before.My FEAR will keep causing me to push away LIFE LOVE, while you subconsciously embrace that same amiliar LIFE PAIN CHALLENGES: Can you wrap your arms around me or those people who broke you, abused you, neglected you, lied to you HURT YOU! and look them in the eyes and say "I LOVE YOU, and I FORGIVE YOU". Now envision yourself doing it, can you do it? I've learn GREATER LOVE, more than your GREATEST FEAR. If you can open your arms to your GREATEST PAIN, you can surely LOVE like you've never LOVED before, and to LOVE like that would mean that you're a whole healthy new person in CHRIST and in LIFE. WHEN FEAR SUPPRESSES TRUE LOVE & MAKES US DOUBT...To hear MY story (All my sisters) about how I was lied to, ABUSED, NEGLECTED EMBARRASSED and USED, and how I FORGAVE TIME AFTER TIME. In my mind I'm not helping you to simply agree with you about how wrong it was in how it caused you so much pain, because every one of US had someone if not a group of people in our LIFE to hug us or pat us on the back, sympathize with our hurt, encourage us and to even pray for us. 
Many of us went through that same PAIN TIME AFTER TIME so I'm compelled to tell you how to minimize it or even "END" IT!!!. If you have been following me even for a month you know where my HEART and my PASSION is and who I speak mostly to in HELPING with HEALING, providing a word that I PRAY will transform your way of thinking that has kept ME open for LIES, ABUSE, and HEARTBREAK. Giving answers to. questions many of you ask everyday, so as best I can with a CHRIST-LIKE LOVE "I Tell You The Truth". I want to help yall understand some of the "Why's", so you can better understand & defend yourself next time. What would a CARING and LOVING brother say to his sister who when he finds out that her heart has been broken and she comes to him with tears rolling down her face, asking him "Why do men" do this or that? 
**His LOVE for ME compels him to give me honest answers, 
whether he himself have done it to other women or not. He knows the heart and mind of men and he has heard the many hidden conquest stories** 
Do Not Quit!!! Do not give up!!! In Gods time....He will act and you will be so thankful you pressed on....pressed through and did not back down.....or if you did back down...you got back on the path and continued to TRUST GOD.....BELIEVE HIS WORD..........and WAIT.....
Let us not become weary in doing good at the proper time we will reap a harvest IF you do not give up! It do not matter that you see NO CHANGE.......
There was NO CHANGE in before the suddenly either..in fact most of you all know what he was about and what he was doing on that road to until God shook him!!!!!..and that quickly open his eyes....and he was CHANGED MAN FOREVER!!!!! You can NOT JUDGE by what you do not hear or see today.......one does not know what will happen tomorrow!!!! Just KEEP TRUSTING FOLLOWING GOD!!!!! He is faithful and he will do what he has PROMISED!!
GOD has his way to work in all lives to accomplish what his will is and what he has PROMISED. He is so great in POWER!!!!
...because of the joy awaiting him, he endured the cross.....
It will be worth it all!!!!
So do not throw away your CONFIDENT TRUST in the LORD. Remember the GREAT reward it brings you! Patient endurance is what you need now, so that you will continue to do GOD'S WILL. THEN YOU WILL RECEIVE ALL THAT HE HAS PROMISED. 
GOD wants you to wait until you see the PROMISE come to fulfillment! KEEP THE FAITH...KEEP BELIEVING HIM.......ITS COMING!!!"Eternity" 
LOVE me in the night time, LOVE me in my sleep,LOVE the way you ease my mind, comfortable for keeps,Love me when my tears are heavy, too heavy to cry,Love me when my mind's a mess, when I don't know why.
LOVE me in the dark of night, in the midnight hour,Love me while I search within, demons I'll devour,LOVE me while I find myself, loving all the world,LOVE me while I tuck ME IN LOVE me while I lose myself, LOVE is a scary thing,
LOVE me while I smash this box, nightmares Pandora brings, LOVE me while I'm loving you, I'll be your heart's desire,
LOVE me while we kick some ass, and set this world on fire.LOVE me while I patch your Soul, with tender loving care,
LOVE me when I shake the world, with fingers in the air,LOVE me when I get confused, learning how to love,LOVE me when I'm loving wrong, and demons start to shove.LOVE me while I'm loving you, I'll never let you go,LOVE me while I take my heart, and hand it to you slow,LOVE me while I patch the holes, buried in your heart,
LOVE me while I stitch our Souls, with passion from the start.LOVE me while we're old and gray, forever heart's together,LOVE me when my hands are trembling, Soulmates surviving weather,Love me when I leave this world, I'll live inside your heart,LOVE me for eternity, to which we'll never part.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️"Simply Unstoppable" We were not your typical Romeo and Juliet fairytale,We were more like Bonnie and Clyde. Stars inside of galaxies with wild fires burning out of control, we were the never-ending depths of every Soul, ever passing through Two hearts beating for each other in imperfect unison,
traveling this journey hand-in-hand, thirsty and raw, with Souls naked,
wearing a heart on their sleeve,pumping pure-ink out of their veins, sharing with the world, their gift of feeling, processing, and healing we were two hearts on fire, two Souls that inspired, we were simply unstoppable. Subject: SELF WORTH (Very Deep!!!) In a brief conversation, a FRIEND asked me as he was pursuing the question: 'WHAT KIND OF MAN AM I LOOKING FOR?' I sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye & asking, 'DO YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW?' Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes. I began to expound, 'As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can't do for myself? I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man... or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?' My friend looked at me. Clearly he thought that i was referring to MONEY. I quickly corrected his thought & stated, 'I am not referring to MONEY. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for EXCELLENCE in EVERY ASPECT OF LIFE. He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to explain. so I  said, 'I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a SIMPLE-MINDED MAN. I need someone who is striving for excellence SPIRITUALLY because I don't need to be UNEQUALLY YOKED...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden. I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded. I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a STRONG MAN. I need a man who is FAMILY-ORIENTED. One who can be the leader, priest and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God. I need someone whom I can RESPECT. In order to be submissive, I must RESPECT him. I cannot be SUBMISSIVE to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being SUBMISSIVE...he just has to be WORTHY. And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will find me. He will recognize himself in me. He may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me. GOD made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself. When I finished MY spill, I looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, 'You are asking a lot. I replied, "I'm WORTH A LOT. Hello DARKNESS I see you are here AGAIN, you are like an OLD FRIEND to me now. Taking more of my soul each visit, DEVOURING any sensibilities my mind holds. Taking my good memories leaving me with only the pain. Whoever said time fixes all pain, I wonder what fucking drugs they were on. IM STILL STANDING  THIS WAY I SHALL REMAIN.      STANDING: what is it? "STANDING" - Choosing to live by GOD'S Word in spite of seemingly insurmountable circumstances. Choosing to believe GOD for healing and restoration instead of bowing to the world's solution' (DIVORCE). Praying for the salvation of one's spouse and for GOD'S spirit of forgiveness to imbue one's life.
"STANDER" - One who has chosen to STAND for marriage in spite of a mate who has chosen to depart...standing on the truth of the Word of GOD which says GOD created marriage as a TILL-DEATH-RELATIONSHIP
When I choose to stand for MY MARRIAGE that is obviously failing or even dead, I must willingly give up all MY 'rights' to CRITICIZE, CONDEME, COMPLAIN about or to your spouse. I must let go ALL ASPECTS of the marriage into GOD'S HANDS, acknowledging that without Him, there can be no RESTORATION. I must first allow GOD to come into MY HEART and cleanse me of all the ANGER, RAGE, BITTERNESS towards MY HUSBAND so that I can INTERCEDE on his/her behalf. Standing requires courage and conviction to hold MY HEAD HIGH when my family, friends, acquaintances, and especially my spouse tell me to give up and move on with my life.I must let GOD lead my every step. Choose to believe His Word rather than the world. Unknown-Ya see......this standing is not just about MY HUSBAND returning. What GOD is after is raising up a holy people.... consecrated to himself....wholly devoted to him......to be made new by the Spirit of GOD.......to SEE as he SEES...to LOVE as he LOVES...to WALK in his WAYS...........this standing is not just about MY HUSBAND returning to make me FEEL GOOD.......NO....its about GOD ...its about living for him....ME and MY HUSBAND together. Its about repenting.....and turning from myself......my eyes being opened to see myself.... So first GOD has to get hearts of standers wholly committed to him(For the eyes of the LORD move about on all the earth to strengthen the heart that are fully committed to him ....to be made new in Him...to bring healing......to grow me in faith.....IT ALL TAKES TIME. See GOD allowed this so I would become HUMBLE and SURRENDER to HIMSELF...to FIND HIM...to now WALL in his PLANS.......this is about Following Jesus as a true disciple...........Cry out to be touched by GOD....don't cry out for my husband to return home........GOD will and GOD wants to do that miracle...but he first wants me to become a miracle....to walk in the light.......then GOD will allow MY HUSBAND to see a NEW ME.....A PEACE...a LOVE HE NEVER SAW IN ME BEFORE.........then they will get hungry for what you have.....this is many standers TESTIMONY.........AS MUCH AS I LONG for MY HUSBAND toreturn...JESUS LONGS FOR ME TO BE HIS more..........Listen GOD'S POWER suddenly can and will awaken my husband out of Satan's lies and darkness(and he may escape from the snare of the devil after being captured to do his will..but He needs my heart fully and wholly committed to HIM....He wants me to find him to be enough......He wants me to be in love with him....for this is GOD'S will for all of us.......turn to him alone.....please....not face book friends......he longs for ME.......Come to Me all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from Me. For I am meek and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. GOD will move my mountain in his timing.......but he has a plan...IT IS HIS WILL!!! He wants MY HOME RESTORED! Tell Satan to shut up tell him to flee in JESUS NAME......recognize he is trying to tempt me to move on...and find someone else that will LOVE me(OH do not believe that for one moment.....the answer is not another man/woman) The answer is to fall on MY KNEES....to find his HELP AND LOVE.......HOLD ON...KEEP CRYING TO HIM....for his help............he will answer....STAY COMMITTED TO GOD.......
He went a little farther, and falling on His face, He prayed, "O My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass away from Me unless I drink of it, YOUR WILL BE DONE. Season will change has it did for Jesus. Resurrection will come......JESUS DIED.........MY MARRIAGE DIED....but because Jesus stayed in that cross and said yes to His Father in the garden.....he was willing.....accepted the cross for GOD'S purpose.........butresurrection day came....and so much LIFE! PAIN DIDN'T LAST FOREVER!! The Lord is saying to ME today....DO NOT FEAR, FOR I am WITH YOU; DO NOT BE DISMAYED, FOR I AM YOUR GOD. I WILL STRENGTHEN YOU, I WILL HELP YOU. Yes I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
Commit your way to the LORD, trust also in Him, and He will bring it to pass. HE WILL IN HIS TIME. COMPONENTS OF LASTING LOVE For LOVE to be lasting it must have THREE CRITICAL COMPONENTS which are UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, SELFLESS LOVE, COMMITTED LOVE. If LOVE is unconditional, selfless and committed, it will NEVER FAIL. Unfortunately, many in this generation do not know this type of LOVE. They are used to SENSUAL,EROTIC LOVE which is very transient and temporal. GOD is LOVE and those who truly know GOD will have COMMITTED, UNCONDITIONAL and SELFLESS LOVE. Their is a DIVINE APPOINTED TIME...a moment.... So imma hold on with all MY HEART to GOD.......KEEP STANDING..KEEP BELIEVING....KEEP YOUR EYES ON GOD.....it do no matter what my husband and others are saying.....GOD is SAYING TRUST ME...BELIEVE ME!!!!! So from here on out im going to follow these 30 GODLY rules of a WOMAN-----------------
1). Never raise my voice for any reason to my husband. Its a sign of DISRESPECT.
2). Don't expose my husband's weaknesses to our family and friends. It will bounce back at me we are each other's KEEPER.
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to my husband, i never know how my husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.
4). Never compare MY HUSBAND to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If I attack his Ego, his LOVE for ME will DIMINISH.
5). Never ill treat my husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is my husband.
6). Never forget that my husband married me, not my maid or anyone else. DO MY DUTIES.
7). Never assign anyone to give ATTENTION to my husband, people may do everything else but my husband is MY OWN RESPONSIBILITY.
8). Never blame my husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather ENCOURAGE HIM
9). Never be a WASTEFUL WIFE, my husband's sweat is too PRECIOUS to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of DENYING my husband SEX. I must give it to him HOW HE WANTS IT. Sex is VERY IMPORTANT TO MEN, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over theat duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long(even the anointed ones) 
11). Never COMPARE my husband to your ONE TIME SEX MATE in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. my home may Never recover from it if i do.
12). Never answer for my husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for me in public opinion polls.
13). Never shout or challenge my husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of my husband before he checks out.
15). Never allow my friends to be too close to MY HUSBAND.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there my husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.
17). My parents or family or friends do not have the final say in MY MARRIAGE. DON'T waste my time looking up to them for a final word. I must LEAVE if i want to LEAVE.
18). Never base MY LOVE on monetary things.Will i still SUBMIT to him even if I earn more money than him?
19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him.Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home. 
20). If my idea worked better than his, never compare myself to him. Its always teamwork
21). Don't be too judgemental to my husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.
23). Does my husband like a kind of cooked food?, try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food.
24). Never be too demanding to my husband,enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to my husband and everyone entering my home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty. 
26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.
27). My marriage is as valuable to me as the value that i give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the LORD, LOVE our children and teach them well.
29). I'm never too old to influence my home. Never reduce my care for my family for any reason. 
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,PRAY ALWAYS FOR MY HUSBAND AND FAMILY.....
..... God bless US 
DEAR GOD,
 I know that You brought me to MY HUSBAND and that You BELIEVE IN MARRIAGE. You want US to have a HOLY, THRIVING MARRIAGE. But we’re in a MESS, and WE'RE so UNHAPPY. I have tried talking to him nicely, then more forcefully, and even pleading with him, but he isn’t listening. LORD, PLEASE SAVE MY MARRIAGE. Help us get back on track. Tell me what I need to say to get through to him. Help him to see what I’m going through and to do what he should be doing to BUILD OUR MARRIAGE. IN JESUS'S NAME AMEN.