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This is for anyone who feel like they don't "measure up". 

How many times have you found yourself apologising for endings - taking responsibility for the pain that holds hands with heartbreak even when you're not at fault? Someone may choose to leave, and you inevitably say, "I'm sorry I wasn't what you needed or wanted" .... why do you do that? Why do you apologise for someone else's mistake, or for their lack of depth and interest? You make apologies to that person because they CAN'T understand you.... or they DON'T WANT to. You are essentially saying sorry for being yourself. WHY????

There are those that will be attracted to your outer-self, that top level, that physical layer, that surface, that "shield".... but once they realise that you're solid and deep, strong and opinionated, and that your romantic expectations far exceed the mediocre 'settling' ones.... they develop a fight or flight demeanor. And chances are, as they're 'flying away', they'll be complaining till the very end how loving you was just too hard. 

Shit happens. Do yourself a favour and stop beating yourself up. And.... STOP apologising!!!