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Like most, I was seeking that special person who was right for me. But I've been through enough relationships that didn't quite cut it where I began to suspect there's no such thing as the right person, just different flavors of wrong. 

Maybe I was doing this all wrong. So, I took a step back and began to reflect on all the things that had gone wrong. In doing that I saw that I, myself am wrong in some ways and I have been seeking out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. Having said that, it takes a lot of living to grow fully into my own wrongness. It isn't until I finally run up against my darkest demons, my unsolvable problems; the ones that make me who I truly am, was I truly ready to find a lifelong mate. Because only then, did I finally know what I was looking for. I wasn't looking for the right person. I was looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person.... it has to be the right wrong person, someone I would lovingly gaze upon and think, "This is the problem I want to have."

Miraculously, I did find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way. Now all we need to do is let our wrongs make it right.